Christian man dating single mom

25 Dec

We have undergone massive life shifts from single-hood to married life, pregnancy, childbirth, breastfeeding; enduring radical changes to our bodies and minds.We are connected, interwoven with the lives of our children.And what’s better is that He offers forgiveness for those sins through Jesus Christ and the eternal comfort of heaven for the mother who accepts Him, the children who accept Him, and even the estranged husband who accepts Him!But often a woman finds herself alone and raising children through no fault of her own.From the outside, we may look the same as our single comrades (with no children,) but the insides of our lives, minds and hearts are vastly different.Single moms don't have the same free will as other single women.

" Answer: The Bible does not directly address single mothers, but there are many examples of God’s gentle interaction with women, mothers, widows and their children.

#Ebrahim Aseem Don’t string any woman along, planting feelings in her heart & empty promises in her mind, when you know damn well you don’t see her in your #Future. Having a wife, spoiling her with love and attention, Being goofy with her, making her laugh & smile every second I spend with her. #Ebrahim Aseem I honestly pray I have all this before my moms gets too old to enjoy a daughter-in-law & grandchildren.

#Ebrahim Aseem Don’t demand her loyalty without offering her commitment, because her loyalty is to her child. If you date a single mother & her child gets attached to you, then you leave, it will crush that child. Men have no idea how hard it can be for Single Mothers to deal with the baby, get ready for work, feed the baby, get dressed, clean up after the baby, rock the baby, because the precious bundle of joy is crying, then wipe her own damn tears, because girls cry rivers having to deal with the baby all by her self. If You can’t say you love your child when you grieve, over stress & over work your child’s mother by making her do most if the work. She does it all alone & is trying to hold it all together. Towards the end of the date, however, she dropped a bombshell. Everytime I see my moms, she talks about wanting grandchildren & saying she raised me to be a husband.

This is why no man should "date" a single mother, MARRY that single mother, make your intentions with her known by courting her, or don’t even waste her time.

#Ebrahim Aseem If you’re not ready to faithfully commit to her, by all means, keep your substance-lacking side pieces & keep playing, but be honest with her.