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27 Aug

Before a relationship begins, it has to officially start, but what causes a relationship to start?

Is it after you've been dating a certain length of time, after your first kiss, or perhaps after saying "I love you"?

with my male partner, a film we both agreed was erotic and arousing.

In a post-coital chat afterwards, it turned out that we had each found completely different scenes in the film to be a turn on.

But human happiness doesn’t function in sweeping strokes, because we don’t live in broad summations—we’re stuck in the tiny unglamorous folds of the fabric of life, and that’s where our happiness is determined.

So if we want to find a happy marriage, we need to think small—we need to look at marriage up close and see that it’s built not out of anything poetic, but out of 20,000 mundane Wednesdays. So I’ll leave the butterflies and the kisses in the rain and the twice-a-day sex to you—you’ll work that part out I’m sure—and spend this post trying to figure out the best way to make Forgettable Wednesday as happy as possible.

The fact that sex is unpredictable, as we open up ourselves to our partner in the act of making love, the stakes are high.

If you move too quickly, or too slow, you could end up ruining a good relationship.

Keep this in mind as you read advice and as you progress in your relationship.

Sex has the power to repair a relationship, to bring people together, and to renew love.

Conversely, when desire falters, we often find it hard to accept.